Well, I guess I think most of it is ordinary. After all, more than fifty percent of people get married, right? That doesn't make it any less important, but it does kind of make it less frightening or weird if you think about it.

['Which doesn't always help me, but things are different in those cases... right.']

I guess people make a big deal about it because it can come in different ways, and it can make people crazy for a while. But it doesn't have to. It doesn't have to be anything except what the people involved want it to be.